Hi Lazycat99,

A good book for you to read would be Sex Men and God by Douglas Weiss. It is more geared towards men and how to build a successful sexual relationship with their spouse. But there is quite a lot about masturbation in it and how a males mind works when it comes to sex. As a matter of fact it is real in depth about the different types of masturbation. It might give you some ideas or insight about how to handle some of the tough questions. But do be careful because parents can be very protective when it comes to their children, especially when it comes to sexual issues! Good luck, I know you will do the right thing as you have the kids best interest at heart. I will also pray God gives you the wisdom to say what He wants you to tell them.

God Bless

Blaze