just two things I wanted to add to this:
I too was involved in the mCC here in uk. yes they try to be tolerant of everyone but when I did tell a couple of people in it about my blness they made it clear that it was unacceptable. (I wasnt surprised and wasnt expecting it to be acceptable but was disappointed that they werent a little more understanding I think. After all, I did not choose to be bl anymore than they chose to be gay.

the other thing that worries me most about being bl is that boys do not stay boys for very long.
If the relationship is real then the love will not die away simply because the once-boy is now-adult. If the relationship dies at a certain age how can it be real love? It has to be the person that we love not the age of the person. If this isnt possible then what a tragedy this can become.