Believe me, Ive thought about this thing at great length. I have no wish to bring anything bad to my church. And I do whatever I can to ensure that any contact, even if all it ever is is eye contact, with any child is good and proper. Yes, I have put myself in thier place in my head, so I know that there probably isnt much I can do to change thier minds if they have made up thier minds against me. Especially when it comes to thier children. But then again, who knows? I have made some great strides in overcoming a public image that I have percieved as bad by just being myself and not worrying too much about it. I know that my intentions are always good, so somethimes it can be best just to relax and let be what will be.

Chris