Hi Robert-I,

Ok, I have to admit that I'm definately not an intelectual kind of guy. I'm not very good at getting into deep discussions about this biblical thing or that biblical thing. But I do know something inspiring when I read it. The gist of what I got from your essay is that God has a good purpose for all of His children, and that He can and does accept us for who we are. AND that the love shared by His children is always a good thing, if it is indeed the pure love given to us by the Holy Spirit. This love does not have to include anything sexual, but it can, so my question is...

Can sexual love between two men or a man and a boy, be honored by God?

I have felt for a long time that God accepts and loves us as we are, unconditionally AND that He has a devine purpose for us as well. I believe that our being Boylovers can and probably is part of that devine purpose, as we can be of great help to young boys in ways that non-BL's cannot. We seem to have a greater tollerance for them that can lead to being more patient with them when they are 'being boys', if you know what I mean. I, however, am convinced that in today's society, it isn't a very good idea at all for an adult to be sexually involved with a child. It goes against society's laws, for the most part, and because of this it can be potentially harmful to both the adult and the child. It is for this reason more than anything else that I cannot see God being ok with this kind of love between a man and a boy. There are other reasons, but I think that this one is a real biggie. What do you think?

With Love in Christ,
Chris