Keep going with it, you have the right motive and your heart is in the right place and your trying to do something good for your wife. Only time will tell if it will work out and if your feelings will change. And if it is not the right way to go about it your a resourceful man and you think of some other way for it to work. Sometimes trial and error is the best way to learn! I only hope she has your best interest at heart also!!

God Bless

Blaze