Hey Robert-I,

I can respectfully agree to disagree.
Once again I thank you for your input into this most educational debate.

"Would you counsel someone who feels as you do about sexuality to take the path you have taken with it?"

NOT IN A MILLION YEARS! [is there a way to make this flash?]

I took the marriage path because I was looking for a healing that hasn't come.

If I was to make a more mature choice, knowing what I do know, or if I was to advise another, I would say the following:

I believe that God loves you just as you are regardless of your sexuality.
I believe that God only allows heterosexual marriage so
Unless you have real sexual attraction to a female then you should not marry one.
If you cannot marry then I advise celibacy.
Use your energy to serve God and love those He gives you to love.
If you fall in love then pour as much love into that relationship as you can in a holy (ie: non-sexually erotic) way as best you can.
Seek God's grace and help to deal with your brokenness.
Seek healthy friendships and fellowship to avoid loneliness.

That is how I wish I could live, but I made a vow to a woman and I'm now seeking to honor it as best I can.

Blessings
Cat.