You said:

"but you do seem to think Cat's problem is so easy and like you have all the answers when you have little or no experience dealing with what he has"

I do think Cat's problem is easy, because lets face it, Cat won't be getting himself out of it, it'll be God who sorts out this mess, and to God, yes, this could be very easy. No, it will be very easy. I may not have any direct experince with with his problem, but I do know we love the same God, and thats how I know, if he (Cat) keeps his eye on the prize, this can blow over easily.

And arrogant was in fact, the wrong word.