I was speaking of her overall happiness in the marriage and you meant during sex. In fact I'd even say she could be happier in sex if her marriage was better.

Pushing yourself to find the will to keep going physically during hard grueling training is difficult but possible for most people. On the other hand no matter how strong your will is you cannot make your sexuality change. No matter how much someone yells at Cat he will not be able to all of a suddenly be sexually attracted to his wife. Like I said above if his wife's attitude was different (like some ped's wives) than this would be a different story. Basic Training is several weeks. Cat has been trying to make this marriage work for much much longer than that.

"When I say it's not that hard, i mean it. Just keep pushing cat, praying, and I don't care how hopeless that sounds, you'll make it."

Perhaps arrogance was the wrong word but you do seem to think Cat's problem is so easy and like you have all the answers when you have little or no experience dealing with what he has.

"despite of what Godspell thinks of us."

What do I think of whoever you mean by us?

Godspell