I would have to agree with that, although we have our problems my wife has totally accepted me as a bl. Your wife had to come to terms with this and love you no matter what. The chances of you becoming non bl are very slim, she must accept this and move on with the relationship the best that she can.
I know I say I am always hopeful of becoming a non bl sexually (I will always be a boylover though) but I also know that I have to accept who and what I am . She has to realize that she can not change you and love you for who you are!! I think that only God can reveal this to her and I hope and pray that He does. And that would be a drastic change!!

God Bless

Blaze