I can understand how you feel, I still live with my wife and we are separated at least sexually. And it was a big relief not having to pretend any more. I hope this works out for you and your wife, I have been praying about this a lot and I think for right know this is the best solution. Maybe
one day in the future your love for her sexually will change. But then for me it has been a long time and it hasn't, but I still have hope that it will.
But at least we are still together and we both want that so things can work out that way, although my marriage never feels all the way complete. Any way I am glad that you have found some relief and that you and your wife are still together! I will continue to pray!

God Bless

blaze