well, network network..... do the makeover thing if needed... it seems terribly shallow but boys do care about what your hair (if any) looks like ... maybe find a friend who has the cruising instinct (ability to recognize like-minded guys anywhere, otherwise known as A-level gaydar).

And pray, of course. The boy you are looking for probably listens to the holy spirit very well. My bf never goes to church but says he's Christian; all I know is that if I have to pray about something involving him, he responds within a day.