I am kinda new to all of the terms that are used and just wanted to get others feelings on the way I was looking at this subject. I do appreciate all of the responses and information that all of you have shared. I am still trying to understand the different views out here. I did not mean to offend
anyone and if I did I do apologize!! My goal was not to imply that any one here is a bad person. It was to find out if I was looking at this correctly.
Remember I did ask to tell me where I was going wrong! If I thought that I was better than anyone else I would not have even asked that question.

God Bless