That's very sweet. I hope his heart is as true as yours. And I hope that if it is, it's not too clouded with cultural junk and that he doesn't become distant when his heart really wants to draw closer.

No one so far has invented a gay courtship without some "extramarital" sex and I am not so sure that that's so very important anyways, as long as people are genuinely looking for love. Boy-boy pairings don't have the traditional pregnancy complications of boy-girl pairings.