If you have a YF do you avoid or allow yourself to sexually fantaise about him?,

Typically, it takes more effort for me to sexually fantasize about a yf than it does to avoid sexually fantasizing about him.

But this varies, and I don't necessarily strive for one or the other.

Can you avoid it?

Sure

Does it effect your relationship if you do fantasise about him?


Not in any way I've been able to detect.

If you can't avoid it does that mean you should abandon the relationship?

No