I'm curious (as cats are) about what you guys think about these issues.

If you have a YF do you avoid or allow yourself to sexually fantaise about him?

Can you avoid it?

Does it effect your relationship if you do fantasise about him?

If you can't avoid it does that mean you should abandon the relationship?

The thinking behind these questions goes something like this:
It seems natural to me that if you are in love with someone you are bound to have some sexual chemistry with them. As Christians how do we keep this in balance and how does it effect the way we relate with boys?

Blessings
Cat.