I have had a real good think about everything and what you guys said.
Your anger is understandable, and I take your words as constructive.

The situation I am in is very confusing.
I worry about him a lot, and he sees this.
But he is in a state at the moment, where he only thinks about what HE wants and does what HE feels like doing.

Youth implied that he hates me and such.
Sure my YF did say he wanted me out of his life, and lots of other nasty things.
But he contacted me the other day and explained that he only said that because he felt alone. Everyone was siding with her (rightfully), because he had hurt her unforgivingly.

In the 'BAD' argument we had, he was talking to two people.
Me and YF2.
He was angry, and at one stage in the argument he was crying and told me just to call his parents now.
He was bouncing back and forward from me and YF2, trying to get some support from either.
But we both were very pissed off at what he did, and what he was doing.

I know there is a good kid in there, and I am trying to help him bring his real self out.
But having all these older girls smothering him in attention has encouraged him to do what he feels rather than what is right.
They are such a bloody hindrance.
How can a sole 18 year old guy compete with flocks of girls that would do anything for my beautiful and handsome YF?

I spoke with his GF, who is still obviously upset with this mess.
I'm trying to support her.
There are guys trying to get with her while she is in an emotional state, and just like my YF, she only cares about what she wants.

Basically, I am trying to support both sides and avoiding anything radical.
YF's old girlfriend tells me that he threatened to tell boys at school about he she is no longer a virgin, and I am speaking to my YF about this.

She said that she felt very close to telling his parents about the incident, and I told her that only if she feels very threatened by him should she do this.
I then contacted my YF and told him to step off, and that he has hurt her enough, there is no need to hassle her anymore.
And HE tells me she still has feelings for him, and is trying to deter girls from being with him.

It is a constant shit fight!, and I am jumping back from both parties trying to sort things out and put the crazy snakes away.
And then something else happens, and I have more food on my plate.


I have totally thrown away all plans.

Firstly, I have taken all advice, and I will stay out of this shit as much as possible.
But only if one side is threated, I will intervene and pacify it.
Eventually it will be forgotten. But until then, I still have the job of protecting both sides.

I won't tell my YFs parents, because they are insane and will pin all blame on me for this.
She is very controlling, so I am assuming she will keep a close eye on any girls who enter her house, and where he goes on weekends.
If she ends up finding the condoms herself and discovers I gave them to him; my excuse stands that they needed to be safe, and that I was asked for them.

Kids do royally screw up.
But who can resist trying to stop the pain that both sides are feeling right now.
I hope that this will teach them to be more mature with their decisions.


But away from this madness; I have sortof good news.
My YF will start visiting me again.
He is coming around this weekend, and I hope to talk with him and gain his trust again.
And AGAIN, the weekend after.

He and my Bro want to drink, and I am a bit hesitant about it.
They aren't in any real danger, they don't leave the house.
I am worried that he will enact the sexual feelings he has been trying to express to me.
But this time, he wont have self control and embarass himself.
I don't know what to do.

I'm sorry for pissing you off Clive.
After reading back over my plan, it does seem insane and risky to me and my YF. My plan was very stupid.
From now on, my goals are only to repair the bond we used to have.
And by the looks of it, it wasn't that damaged at all.

I am going through a lot with this garbage, but stepping out as you said, has made me see it from a different angle.
But what one hell of a screwup they have made.

Thankyou.
Thankyou everyone.