I wrote a while back about some bad news about my YF not being able to control his sexual feelings.
Though I received a lot of comments telling me I should side with YF, this incident has really messed up his GF.

And it seems that it hasn't phased him at all.
Straight after their separation, he was out flirting with older girls (some my age).
He really has lost his self control, he is too young and immature to have any.
Add sex to the equation, and you have a bigger problem.


So: I am very tempted to contact his mother and letting her know of all the things that have happened behind her back.

I've been thinking non stop of what I am going to say; and I have decided that.
I won't tell her that she was basically raped by him, and that she is very upset.

Before I tell her anything, I will have her gauruntee me that she will not approach his GF or her parents.
Also, that she doesn't tell him that I told her, because him hating me would turn him against my little brother.

- Her Son is having sex, and has been for a few months.
- That I gave him condoms before he met his GF, and he started having sex.
He told me that he needed more, so for them to be safe, I bought him a
Pack.
- That they fit it in while she was outside the house.
- I didn't tell her about them having sex, because I passed it off as kids
just mucking around.
- She changed her mind about sex, and he broke up with her.
- That he instantly started pursuing girls much older than he is.
- Now that he has done this, I have realized that it is much more dangerous
than two kids mucking around, so I decided it was best to tell her.

- If she doesn't believe me, I will tell her to search his room and she
will find Condoms in his drawer.
- If she asks how I know these things, I will tell her that it was both of
their stories on numerous occasions.
- If she asks why I care, I will tell her the truth.
That he has been a Younger Brother to me as much as my Brother have, and
that he has told me that I am an older brother to him.

- I will suggest that she play the idea that she was cleaning his room and
found the condoms, and leave me out of it.

She apparently suspects that I am gay and that I have given him alcohol in the past.
So really, I have to lie about that.

- Laugh that I am not gay, and that I don't have to prove it.
- That I 'admit' that I gave him a can of Rum only once when he and my
brother were pestering me after they found it in the fridge.

In reality, I have given him and my brother alcohol on two occasions because they asked.
They indeed did find it in the fridge, and pestered me about it, so I spent some time with them and let them finish the carton).
The second time, was when my YF wanted to stay, so we decided to drink and laugh about life.
If she hassles me about what I tell her, I will tell her that I know that his father lets him drink A LOT.

Also, if I said I felt Gay, she will take him away so fast.
She would perceive all the attention I have given him as homosexual, when In reality it wasn't.
Actually, that could well be why he is confused about his feelings.
A mother who is controlling her son to stop him from turning into a 'pillow-biter'.
Have I mentioned before, that she STOPPED letting YF2 into her house because she thought he was a little gay!! Poor kid.
It's all falling together now! What a BITCH!

Well anyway, I really do trust that she won't tell him that I told her.
And that I genuinely care about what is happening, and that I don't want to do anything stupid.
If she does tell him, My reason were that I cared about him and couldn't trust him from doing something stupid.

Now I realize she is trying to stop him from being gay, I will die if she says "no, that it fine by me".
Trying to sleep with 18 year old girls is fine, but having a 14 year old friend over is wrong because she thinks he is gay.
I am sure that something like this will happen.
His father is the type of man that would be proud that his young 15 year old is 'bangin' some'.
Agh, I want to adopt him out of that fucked up family.

Though he is STILL acting as if he wants to do something sexual with me.
Repeating things that he said before, jumping to sexual conversations from nothing.
I will wait a week or so before I call, and explain to him before hand my feelings for him. And also the dangers of us doing things together.
I almost want to do it to spite his mother!

If I did so something, I could change him enough to pull him away from the girls. He could be mine?
But if an older girl is enough of a whore and takes him away, I will call his mother and let her know.
Am I selfish?

Let me know what you think, or any other ideas.
Thanks for reading.