God's boundaries are quite inclusive of sexual expression of love between 2 men or 2 women. They're also inclusive of intergenerational relationships, above the age of 13. So that's not such a difficulty. True, the law of the land and that of the human church don't let us get married in an official capacity (in most places), but God looks at reality not formality, so if you believe that you are married in your hearts, you are married before God who sees your hearts.

So spiritually, there really isn't much of a dilemma.

In Christ,
~CSL