Cat,
I realy am very sorry that things came down to this, despite my feelings about the issues. I know how much you love her, and your kids, and I am praying that this can happen in the most loving way for everyone involved. I will pray that she can agree to joint custody, and to stay reasonably close by so that you can remain a family: a divorced family, but still a family.

In the Hope of the Risen Christ,
~CSL