I have some news, and its not good.

As predicted, my YF Broke up with his GF.
And not for no reason.

A girl, aged 18, took his fancy.
He decided that his current GF was useless, and basically dumped her.
He met this girl while drunk at his older sisters house, and decided that he could pursue her.

Regardless of constant reminding from me and his friends that this was a very bad and selfish move, he was too full of himself to care.

The party was yesterday, and today he visited us and told me what happened.
Naturally I hate this new girl, she is 3 Years older than him and must be attracted to him physically, because he has turned into a selfish bastard.
I was very worried for him initially, but my priorities changed when I found out something disturbing.

I spoke to my YF, and he told me that he snuggled with this girl last night, and today he visited her house twice (for sex probably).
I was angry, and told him it was a bad move.
I called her a cradle-snatching Skank, and he got angry.
After he called me "a fucking homo", I said "you only care about what you want".
He strongly replied "YES".

It didn't stop there, he went out to my brother and called me a Homo.
So I told my brother in front of him of him and YF2's 'Naked in Bed Dry Humping' experience.
He struggled to defend himself, and denied everything.
So I made it clear to my brother that YF told me.
My brother laughed.

It was bad and wrong, but I was tired of being pushed.

My YF has grown up into a man, a selfish and egotistical man.
I was depressed most of the afternoon, trying to cope with my loss.
And I realized that I actually felt good.
I refrained from calling him and apologizing like I used to, and let him go .
Tonight however;

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I just finished talking to his GF, who is obviously devastated that she was dumped for some nasty older girl.

In the beginning, I didn't really like his first GF much.
I thought that she was taking him away from me.

I was comforting her, she was crying. She is 13.
She then told me that her first sexual experience was essentially rape.

Her story was that, she wanted to wait until she was 16 Before she had sex.
But he was adamant that he got it now, and tried to take every opportunity.
Eventually she gave in, and let him have his way with her.

The reason she gave in, was because she was sneaking around with another guy. (I wrote about this before).
So she let him have his sex, so that he wouldn't leave her.

Before, He told me that she was the one who wanted to have sex.
But according to her, he wanted it and she didn't.
One time, she said she cried while he kept doing it.

It was only once she started denying him sex because she didn't like it, he started taking interest in the older girl at the party.
And now he has broken up with her.

THE CONDOMS:
I originally gave my YF two condoms because I wanted them to be safe.
I didn't know that it would encourage them to have sex so young, or as I now know, part of a rape.
He then payed me to buy him a box, that was when I found out they were having sex.

One day I proposed the idea that I give the condoms to his Girlfriend, because I wasn't sure if he was pressuring her into it because she was young.
He came back the next day, and told me that she said it was OK for him to the Condoms.

After talking to her, I found that he didn't tell her at all.
Instead, he kept the condoms and used them when he wanted sex, regardless whether she wanted it or not.

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This news was very devastating, and I'm struggling to accept that my sweet little YF has turned into a selfish monster.
I raised him and taught him morals and life lessons I have learnt.
I treated him like a brother and close friend.

She asked me repeatedly not to tell anyone, but I found it hard to resist.
What if he does it again? He needs to know it is wrong.

I can't call the Authorities, because his life will be basically ruined.
His parents will crucify him, and his GFs parents are Irish Catholic.
Her father would come after him with an axe.

So instead, I have made him feel just as guilty, without ruining his life.

I wrote a letter to him, telling him that I know about what he did.
I pored over all the lies he fed me, and all the things he did to hurt her.
I made it clear what laws he broke.

And I told him, If he EVER approaches her and protests this, I WILL tell his Parents, who in turn will tell the Authorities.
And then his Highschool life will be ruined.

I feel this is the best I can do without ruining his life, but I will not hesitate in telling his parents what he has done.
Even if I do get in trouble for giving him condoms, my reasoning still stands that it was for his own good only, and that his parents should have prevented them doing these things in the first place.

I am awaiting a reply from him, but no doubt he is rightfully crapping his pants.

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And finally, after all of this, I feel good.
I am no longer attached to my YF, and have actually lost most of my BL feelings.
So I wont be posting long irritating proses each week from now on, lol.

Theres no telling whether he will still depend on me for emotional, and I will provide it for him if he needs it.
Believe it or not, I still do care for him after this, but my relationship with him has been tarnished by all of his lies.

I'm now independent and free!
Thanks for reading.
I'm off to watch Godfather 3!