Christian BoyLove Forum #53113
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I appreciate Dakota's advice.
A strong reason that I set limits last night, is because most people here suggested that I shouldn't progress to anything sexual. I'm weighing out the consequences of doing such, and it does seem that the best option is to opt out of sexual things for now, because there is much better ways of expressing ourselves. If I did move to sexual things, as it was mentioned before, it could consume our relationship. The Cliffhanger: Last night was very emotional for both of us, he was a bit uncomfortable about letting it out. I let him know, as I always do, that he can tell me anything and I will look after him. It was dark, and I think he got a bit teary. He is one of those boys who can't show emotion well, and fights it off. But last night he was comfortable, and never tried to change the subject as he usually does when he has something difficult to say. I told him that I had feelings for him right before he went to sleep. I have no idea whether he wants to still do anything the next time he visits (maybe next weekend). He may have taken my words as an invitation to progress to those things. I really don't know when he will come around again, as he usually just appears out of no-where. I'm not really sure how to handle the next situation, but I pray that things will turn out as well as they did last night. Thanks again. I still encourage your opinions and advice. - Mason |