This is my wife's view on Sexuality. It really is quite challenging.
I post it here for your comments.

God made man male and female.
He made them sexual.
He gave them marriage to express/enjoy their sexuality.
"A man shall be joined to his wife and the two will become one flesh" (Gen 2)

Anything out side of this is sin and needs to be knocked on the head.

Scripture knows nothing about orientation. As in, Scripture makes no room for any orientation other than heterosexual and even that only within the context of marriage.
Scripture only knows the male + female = marriage relationship.
Orientation is a modern (psychological) idea.

Scripture (Romans 1:24-28) calls homosexual practice a response to "futile thoughts, a darkened heart, unclean lusts of the heart, God handing people over to vile passions" and "a debased mind". It calls the practice "burning in lust" and a "dishonouring of the body".

She believes that attraction to males is the result of years of habitual sexual focus on them and that if I would simply choose to accept these truths then I could resist the temptation and find fulfilment with her alone.

Tell me what you think,
Blessings
Cat.