Diddy, I'm desperate to know where you think I'm going wrong.

Show me please.

I sure don't want to hit the "solid crisis stage".

What is the "big choice" I have to make and how can I make it before the damage is done???

I mean specifically, do you think I can make things work with my wife? and if you do then tell me how. I'm all ears! (and cats have good big ears!)

Blessings
Cat.