...to finally quit hurting. At the risk of sounding just like everyone else, I must agree with CSL. And I also have to add this question... Haven't you hurt long enough? Don't you think it's about time to move on and live a much better, healthier life? Ok, so that was two questions, but you see what I'm saying, right?

Cat, my friend, this will never, ever end. It just keeps going through the same nasty pattern, over and over again. She takes you back and things are ok for a while, then she lays on the big guilt trip and tells you to do what she wants, or else! It's just insane and I'll tell you what, it's even painful for all of us to watch you go through it time after time after time. I agree with CSL, divorsing her is not giving up on your marriage or on any of the good things that it produced (like your kids for example). Actually I think it would be better for her as well as for you.

Bro, you've GOT to do something other than what you have been doing, if only to save your own sanity. Do you know that doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is the very definition of insanity?

Love,
Chris