When psychologists are feeling exasperated, they typically say something like, WELL I GUESS YOU'RE JUST IN ENOUGH SHIT TO CHANGE!

Looks like you're headed that way, Cat. I am fond of you...but it looks like you're going to need a good solid crisis to snap you out of where you are.

Would it were otherwise...but it looks like you're heading more and more towards THE BIG CHOICE POINT with every post you make.

I'll keep you in my prayers, man!

---Didaskalos

I agree that the authors are a little heavy-handed in doling out the "DEVIANT" label in scarlet letters.