I was so happy for you and mentally cheering through most of the post until I got to the end. I can't imagine how you feel. It was like reading a story "And everyone lived happily ever after.....NOT, EVERYONE DIES!!!!"

Something like that

You are doing great Cat, good luck and keep up the good work. Your wife has come a long way since you came out to her. Perhaps with time things will continue to change for the better.