you are a pedophile

I think you're right. She says she can't deal with a platonic marriage. You can give her sex but not like how she wants it so she is making the marriage platonic. She has unrealistic expectations for you. Marriage is always about compromises and she is unwilling to make one, in any direction. By her own judgment it is going to end by her choice since you have given her several options that would make it not platonic but not exactly how she would like it. "I love you very much and want to be with you. But my love for you is in no way sexual... it is only friendship. I don't know if this will be like this forever, but it is how it is now and I don't see any prospect of it changing. If this is not enough for you then we should agree to separate." change to: "I love you very much and want to be with you. But my love for you is in no way sexual... it is only friendship. I can make this marriage more than platonic but not exactly the way you want. If this is not enough for you then we should agree to separate." The decision is on her. She has changed her mind 20x+. You want to stay but by her own requirements she does not want it to keep going she just has not outright said it yet. It's not as if you just came out and told her about this last week it has been about 2yrs now she knows everything. Give her some time to decide, I'd say a week. Good luck Cat