This is for CAT...
Submitted by JackWade on 2007-12-12 06:52:16, Wednesday
In reply to Be a man! submitted by Cat on 2007-12-11 04:25:54, Tuesday
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Cat, At first I wasn't gonna reply to this cause I'm single and haven't had any real marital experience to speak from. Then I got to thinking that as a christian, you already tied the knot. The only way out is marital unfaithfulness. Now don't go and be unfaithful. But express your love to her. It's until death do you part, in good and bad and you get the picture. You are who you are and she is who she is and you two need to come to terms about that fact. So you're having erectile dysfunction (ED). Big deal. It seems to me that your ED is caused by your BL tendencies. I can understand that. That's probably why I haven't had a meaningful relationship with a woman myself. And Lord knows I've tried. Also I don't think that your wife is ready for that side of your sin nature. So I personally wouldn't mention it to her. However, I would try to impart the sadness it causes me to see how my ED affects her. God is Love. I know a song that goes like this, "Love is something you do. It's not always something you can feel but it's real." I can go on for a while so I'm gonna stop before I slaughter my message to you. Just one more thing. I wanna tell you that I think about you once in a while through out the day very often. I wander how you are doing. How you're making it in life, your marriage, etc.... I really, really wish the best for you. Love God and be as Godly as you can in all your ways. I'm saying this to say that even though I only know you through a nickname on a discussion board, you are human and I truly care for you. Agape style!! Hope I made sense buddy. Bro's in Christ, JackWade |
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