Be a man!

My wife says to me last night. If you can't do the job, why not be a man and admit it and then we can separate. I said, "I'm willing to do the sex thing, even if I don't like it the way I want" "But", says she (remembering the last time I lost my erection during intercourse) "but you CAN'T do it". She does not believe she can live with me in a platonic relationship with no sex/romance. Went to counseling today. Afterwards I had a good honest talk to myself. I really don't like sex with women. I resent being asked to like it. Whilst I find women good looking (my wife especially so) I don't want to have sex in any way shape or form with a female. So I've been thinking of long suffering the sex for the sake of my marriage. Which would be ok if I could preform, but I can't. I told my wife about the viagra option, but she don't like that either. Also my wife wants only genuine sexual affection - nothing forced. I have none. At this point I'm thinking to say something like this: "I love you very much and want to be with you. But my love for you is in no way sexual... it is only friendship. I don't know if this will be like this forever, but it is how it is now and I don't see any prospect of it changing. If this is not enough for you then we should agree to separate." So any feed back guys before I do this? Blessings Cat.