The subject comes from Cat's post below.

What percentage of the population do consider us monsters? When I've told (admittedly very few) people the way I feel, the general feeling is "well, good on you for abstaining".

I get the feeling that most people would be more sympathetic if they could get their heads around the difference between BLs who have sex with kids and those who abstain.

EMPIRE

PS Is this a better topic than masturbation for you, Chris? If not, I'm happy to discuss interior decorating or Jewish Chamber Music as alternatives...