I also find that life as a BL improves with age. But I also always believed that I had a role to play in life.

I used to cry over my orientation in my 20's and in the years following years at Christmas time.

I am now 70 but by the time I was 40 I considered myself lucky to be a boy lover and I know more about giving and receiving love than the majority of people.

I am fortunate to live in the UK which is probably much easier than for you guys in America.

Best wishes to you all
William