Today my wife came to church with me.

Two of the boys that I like... and she knows I like them... came to play with me. A simple and harmless game of playfully provoke the adult till he chases you.

This caused my wife some considerable distress.

We ended the day with a discussion that basically went along the lines of I choose her or I choose playing with them.... but in her mind, I don't care about our marriage if I continue to play/hang with boys.

I told her that it don't have to be so polarised.

She calls that wanting to have my cake and eat it too.

I'm a bit frightened really by the whole thing. The cost to her if I do hang with boys... the cost to me if I don't :S

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Cat.