since folks on this forum agree that having sex with boys is wrong under any circumstances (or am I wrong to assume everyone feels that?)

Ummm. Yeah you are wrong. There are a few people who come in from time to time to argue that sex with a minor is not only not wrong, but that it is beneficial and Scriptural to do so.

They do this while claiming to be Christian.

Only God can judge their heart, but by their writing and sad misinterpretation of Scripture does not do much to endorse their claim.

I accept who I am but I cannot be happy in an abberant* sexuality.

Well said. Not many here would agree that it is aberrant, but the reality is that ANY sex outside of marriage is aberrant. Whether it be boy, girl, man or woman, if it is not within holy matrimony, even the desire is sinful.

I too accept who I am in whole, but I do not accept the sinfulness of my flesh.

I am not entirely sure, however, that your analogies are spot on. They would do better with combating a sin such as pornography, or sexual addiction. Though I understand what you are saying.

Feel free to drop me a line sometime!