1. Are any of you guys STRAIGHT boylovers?
Nope... I've never felt any substantial attraction to women. I've had some attraction to boyish looking girls... but its not really sexual. I've had some mild attraction to my wife... but its not usually towards her genitalia or distinctly feminine parts (ie, sometimes I think her butt is cute).

2. Are any of you guys EXCLUSIVE to boylove, and can't feel attracted to anyone else?
ummm... see my answer to Q1.
Very occasionally a boyish looking older guy will be attractive to me... but if there's hair... I'm outa there!
I've tried very very hard to develop an attraction to females. Especially in the last few years. But the harder I try and make myself like the female body sexually... the more I dislike it. Its kinda like force feeding myself something I don't like the taste of ... eventually you get to the point where you just HAVE to spit it out.
I get so frustrated over this point. I think... the differences between male and female are so slight. Its all just skin on flesh on bones at the end of the day. WHY!!! can't I find females attractive? I just don't understand it... but the difference is radical in terms of my reactions. I see a boy's hip for instance and I swoon. I see a womans and its like... eww! This is so frustrating to me because I really want my marriage to work if it can and this is our biggest stumbling block.
I lost my erection during sex the other night and my wife started to cry. I can't tell you how defeated I feel :(

3. Are any of you guys UNCOMFORTABLE around people your own age in general?
ummm... yeah I am. I've suffered from social anxiety most of my life. I am pretty much afraid of most adults.... and some teenagers too. I have worked hard not to let this rule me... my wife has helped a lot too in this area.... she's really encouraged me to get out there. Now I have very healthy relationships with adults... and I have some great friends. I'm glad I crossed the bridge.... I like having adult friends.
I agree with Empire that some adults are just boring... but they aren't all like that and there's plenty of fun to be had amongst them.

Blessings
Cat.