Hmm this message is directed to you Chris. I hope not a lot of people read it lol. But the YF is now actually my boyfriend. (although it's only online because I'm a nerd) And yes of course I take him very seriously... I kinda like the fact that I am able to have the romantic side of the relationship, and also the ability to help raise him. The idea of actually helping to bring up the boy you are in love with just seems so romantic to me, although I'm sure it sounds pretty messed up to others. But from my point of view the relationship seems to be extremely healthy for both of us. He and I both love the age difference... (I am 20, just a reminder) He says he's never loved anyone as much as me, and he's never been happier before. (Consider that after he was recently gang molested!) Having that impact on his life is such a treasure to me. I know I would not be the first one to support a relationship between a 20 year old and a 14 year old, but I'm not like other 20 year olds, and he's not like other 14 year olds. (I hope you could sense that.) He's virtually everything I could ask for... I never knew I could possibly find someone like him! He loves it when I call him my beautiful little boy. I'm so proud of him I could go on forever (Wish I could share a picture!) but I'll stop here. So what do you think of this? Am I crazy or just really really lucky?