Well it really depends on who wrote the description of boy/girl lover. AND what they meant as they write it.

The way I see it is that there are some very unscrupulous people out there that are very vocal and also consider themselves child lovers. And no one of that title ever attempts to say "no, that is not what you are."

By not "kicking them from the club" so to speak, it becomes an unspokenly condoned.

I for a time chose to align myself as a girl lover, also a Minor Attracted Adult. But see, I always had a problem with this and was always searching for a more accurate term. There was a sex therapist that used to post at another site. She said that I was free to make up any term I wanted. I came up with an acronym of about 20 letters, using it as a joke title mostly. But it did reflect more of what I felt.

But now, I see it is all meaningless! I am a Christian. I am a child of God. I am a redeemed sinner. What more titles do I need? What other title could possibly hold any meaning to me after these?