I'm assuming you are talking about the sexual attraction. I would happily give that up in a New York minute. Some BLers seem to think that if they lost the sexual attraction, they would also lose that warm feeling we get when it comes to boys. That just isn't true. I have no sexual attraction to little girls but still get that warm feeling from them. Frankly, I wish I had no sexual attractions at all. I'm not married and am past the point where I need any sexual attractions. They are more of a hassle than anything else. If I never got horny ever again, I would be a happy camper and have a lot more time to focus on other things.

Dakota