One thing that has struck me in your posts. You don't seem to be a "boy-lover." You seem more like a deeply caring individual who has a homoerrotic tendencies. Add in that you have a strong commitment toward young people (as evidenced by both boys and girls coming to confide in you) and to a pedophobic outsider... BAM you get slandered.

If you can possibly help it, do not take the label boylover. Don't take ANY label other than Christian. Otherwise it can become a cunningly laid trap.

Peace be with you and may God bless you!