Thanks fort the input d :)

Actually pleasing her and not worrying about my own orgasm is the strategy that I am trying.... the masturbating alone later was also happening.

I don't really want to do the drugs thing... I'm terrified of side effects :S

and finally, when I'm in the sexy mood I find that no amount of praying or bible reading distracts me. I'm a sexual being, even when I'm seeking God and frankly (whilst I don't want to be sinful in the process) I'm not ashamed of it.

Blessings
Cat.