HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. You have the right attitude. ACCEPTANCE OF thyself is the key action. You will be a happier person. God may not send you anything for pleasure and that is OK. You have accepted yourself for who you are and that is very key. You have the right attitude to survive this boy thing. Unfortunately, we are judged by people on this earth. They have no right to judge. As an individual, we must act to please God and to have the discipline to control is very important. Lets look at the boy as BEAUTY