Cat, first of all i'd like to thank you for everything you've contributed to this blog, including the advice you gave me. I'd like to encourage you with your struggle with your marriage, especially the sexual side. No offence but part of being married is about gratifying your partner. I know that your sexual desires may not lie with your wife (or even with woman at all) but this shouldn't stop you from providing for her sexual needs. Many men get sick of being with their wife over time, but they stick with her despite their lack of sexual attraction to them, and I incourage you to do the same. Whatever you decide to do know that my prayers are with you, as well as the love of God.

P.S- double thankyou for your advice, I have meet a woman (young lady) and decided to court her instead of having sex with her, (even though she is non-christian and would like to). It has for the moment taken my eyes off my attraction to boys, but know whatever happens I will always be with you and others with simalar strugles.

God bless you
Globulus.