Thanks for coming by the board, it's always good to hear from new people.

My opinion is that, not only would you be unfaithful to the Lord, but such a strategy would also be ineffective. If you are a BL (or gay, or whatever the case may be), then barring a miracle, you are going to be a BL, or gay, or whatever, for the rest of your life. Having sex with women is not going to change that. If it were as simple as having sex with women, we would not see the phenomenon of married men leading a double life as gay men.

However, I don't believe that you should be accepting that you are a BL just yet either. It's obvious from your post that you aren't really sure where your attractions lie, and that's perfectly ok. Rather than going out for casual sex, I encourage you to seek out relationships. Try dating for a while and see how that goes. There is no need to rush into a decision about what your sexuality is until you have adequately explored it. I believe dating would be far more beneficial than sex anyway. Sex is going to feel good no matter who you do it with, but it will not answer the question of whether you are truly attracted to such people.

Attempting to change your sexual orientation is an exercise in frustration and futility. It's far more important to discover who you really are so that you can begin the process of accepting who you are and figuring out what you are going to do about it. You don't want to end up like one of the countless men currently living miserable lives married to someone they don't care for because they thought it would fix their gayness.