You say that the graphic dreams started when you stopped masturbating to fantasies of boys, right? Well, it seems like the answer is an easy one. Pick a favorite boy from the movies , t.v., or anywhere, grab some vasaline and have a good time. At least you can controle the content of the fantasies. The dreams sound like they are getting out of controle.

I know what you mean about how dreams like those can be upsetting. I've had them at certain times in my life, mostly when I was under a lot of stress. Like when I was in jail. I had some woppers while I was in there. I'm glad I don't talk in my sleep.

Anyway, I still believe that a good old fashioned self induced hand job is the best theropy around. It's been working for me for a long time and I've got the thick glasses and bad complexion to prove it.

Chris