I like this theory you have about energy and about how a boy or boys will find us if they need to be loved. I can believe that because that is exactly how I came by my YF, "L". He found me because he needed someone like me in his life. He actually picked me to be his friend, although I know I was attracted to him as well. He was the one who first put his arms around me and said, "I love you".

I will always believe it was God who put us together. A friendship like that isn't an average kind of thing, it's something very special. AND I think it's the right thing to do to leave this kind of friendship in His hands. Let Him put it together and if it's something He wants for us, He will bless it and keep it together. I know he did just that with "L" and I.

But I like what you said about energy and that some boys are attracted to it naturally. I like that a lot. If we leave this kind of friendship in God's hands, it will happen in His good time. Perhaps we might have to wait for it for a long while, but things must be just right for it to happen in the right way. In the way that God wants it to happen. Yea, I can believe that.

Thank you for this theory, I like it.

With Love in Christ,
Chris