I guess I don't understand your frustration? From what I understand:

1) You R a man.
2) Men have alot of horny genes!
3) Men will do what they can to relieve themselves.

That's my silly thing. Okay Serious now. Umm... I try not to masturbate. Not that Masturbation in itself is sinful, but for me it's the fantasy that goes with it that's sinful. For a Christian thinking it is the same as doing it. So whatever you are fantasising (Did I spell that right?) about you are essentially committing adultery with. Now I suppose if you could succesfully masturbate without the fantasy issue then Masturbation wouldn't be a problem. This is why I try not to. Notice I said I try. I have times when I can go longer than other times but, I always end up masturbating at some point. Never gone longer than a few weeks.

Now, I used to feel very guilty for the times I failed. But what can I do? Biblically speaking, I can't have sex outside of marriage. And this sexual frustration becomes to much sometimes and I need a release. I'm doomed right? Not at all!! Thank God we are Justified by "Faith" not by "Works" lest any man should boast! (Ephesians I believe.) we are rightous (Did I mispell that too?) by faith in Christ. Read the hall of Faith, Hebrews 11. You will find that their faith was accredited to their account as rightousness. And rightousness is what we need when we face the Lord on Judgement day. That's good preaching if I do say so myself!! LOL

Sorry, didn't mean to preach. I'm a Youth Minister by the way. I'm also a BL. Webmaster, if you feel that's too much info, by all means please edit it.

Hope this helps.

Jonas27