I have never really been asked that before. But i am sure family/relatives might think so because i am never with a girl. In the past i thought i was gay, i even hooked up a couple times with adult males, but found out i was not attracted to that. I was not aroused at all. But if i were to be naked with a boy, i know i would.

Am i gay because i am attracted to a boy? I would say yes, because after all being gay is being attracted to the same sex. So being attracted to boys but not men, i guess that would still make me gay. I can't go around saying "Yes, i am gay, but only to minor boys".

I am sure adult gay men who have adult boyfriends lead a happy fruitfull life because they have somebody sexually with them. A BL like myself, daily life is filled with being alone all the time. But i know if another BL was pysically living in the same city as me and we were friends, it would be a happier time then. I would have a friend to talk to, go places etc. Have something in common actually.Even though i would still be sexually alone, just having another BL friend would help out a lot because of what we have in common.

I know a lot of people here have straight friends they hang around with too, which is great. But at the present time i do not have any friends at all yet here, so that is why i think i would be happier with another BL as a friend. And life goes on.
Nash