I used to just sweat whenever anyone would ask me that. But now I guess it's a lot closer to the truth than saying no, so if the person asking me is someone who I am close to or that I know I can trust, then I just tell them yes. Besides, it IS a lot closer to the truth nowadays. It's wierd but my AOA keeps expanding in the direction of older males. I don't mean older as in thirty or more, but more like 19 to maybe 23 or 24 or so. I believe in the gay community they are called "Twinks", or something like that. I still love young boys and am still attracted to them, but it's just expanding.

I have pretty much given up on trying to date women, though. Why pretend to be something you are not...that's how I feel. I'm not saying that's what you are doing, but that's what I was trying to do. It never worked. I hope it works out for you but it sounds like your date went like mine always did.

With Love,
Chris