I've been asked that question before ~ not recently that I can remember though ~ probably 'cause I pay no attention when other guys are drooling over what they consider to be hot women. I don't bother pretending to be straight ~ don't pretend to be gay either. If someone asks me if I'm gay I just say no and then they just assume I'm a quiet non-flirtatious straight guy. If they press the issue I just change the subject and they can think whatever they want of me.

J

Come away, O human child,
to the waters and the wild
with a fairy hand in hand
for the world's more full of weeping
than you can understand