I say step back and watch.
I must say from the current situation that any chances of that happening invloving the young minister... has the same chances involving you.

Oh and you may not know as much about BL as you thought you did. I thought hugging my young friend was bad, until (keep in mind this is like 9 months ago) I found out that every guy in the Youth Group just slaps his butt.

All I am saying is, he could be fooling you, until you see THE UNSPEAKABLE happen or if you know what I mean, or some "Southern Touching" you shouldn't be worried.

And if all else fails.... trust in God my good friend, he will deliver your son unharmed.