Christian BoyLove Forum #51332
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Friends are great, I love my friends, they have been there for me in times of great need and we have fun times. Yet I am also an individual and need to be able to find happiness in myself. If you are wholly dependent on others for happiness it will be much harder for you if something were to separate you from your friend. It also limits your growth as an individual.
We as humans are interdependent on each other and only you can know if you have gone too far in one direction or the other (too isolated or too dependent) for you, everyone's "too far" would be different. Sit down one day quietly for awhile and think it over. If you need thoughts after that we can help with that too. Gs |